Everyone hates a phony or a liar�..and they can spot it a mile away! Just being yourself is your own best advertisement! If you are open to others, they can sense it. Have realistic expectations about making friends first. Flirting should be genuine and sincere, not flighty and irresponsible. The ability to flirt is the ability to take control of yourself and have an impact on the world! I can't stress enough that flirting is to make someone else feel good about themselves. When properly achieved, it is healthy, enjoyable, and refreshing for both people involved.

Don't worry what will happen next�.live for the moment. You might not get another chance! You might never see this person again either�.so go for it! Make The First Move, move closer to the person you want to meet. Say hello! Be The Host, change your behavior from the role of guest to host. You are not the passive person in waiting, but rather the welcome committee.

Once you've established eye contact, smile. REALLY smile - not the little grin you offer your teacher when you hand in a test - offer a heartfelt smile. A smile is the primary form of nonverbal flirting! Let them see your natural smile....don't hold back�.flash those pearly whites! It is contagious. It will make you so much more approachable. A smile lights up your face, and smiling will draw people to you. You will be a people magnet! Try it.

If you mirror the other person's body language....you communicate a feeling that you like them and they will relax. Have good eye contact but don't stare! Look at their head, hair, away for a moment....and then back at their face. Make eye contact, but look your partner in the eye gently, no more than 2-4 seconds, glance away. Don't stare, it's a turn off. (Never Never talk to a woman's chest either�.I don't care How Big it is!) Wink and remember there is only one rule for winking: W.O.O. - Wink Only Once. This is very important! If you wink more than once, you're not flirting, you're getting something out of your eye. Make yourself look friendly. Don't stand straight and cross your arms. That says "Go Away!". Lean a bit and splay your arms and legs about as if to say "COME ON OVER HONEY!". Mimic body language, if your target shifts to the left leg, you shift the same direction (your right). It's another subconscious way to set your target at ease.

Show that you are interested in what they say....ask for details to prove you have been listening! (You Have haven't you ?). Listen carefully as you have two ears and one mouth because you should listen twice as much as you speak. Listening is a true art. Your flirting partner will be drawn to you. Everyone loves to be listened to. Start a conversation, the best opening line is saying hello! Talk about the surroundings, ask a question, ask for help, and state an opinion. From drinking straws to ink pens and peanuts, twirling or fiddling shows you're a little nervous - it's important to make your target feel more comfortable and less like a target.

Offer a handshake, possibly reach for their arm or shoulder but touch them sparingly (some people find it offensive to their space) This is a powerful communicator that you Like this person. Have Fun, be playful, light hearted and spontaneous. Show your vulnerability. Feathery touches and minimal grooming gestures (such as flicking a piece of dust off of a jacket) are a way to show interest. Use good judgment here, as you don't want to invade your target's "space". Don't confront, intimidate, or attempt to argue! First impressions can last forever. You don't want to be remembered forever as the "Last Man/Woman in Hell!

are the other person's loss. Don't take it to heart�.and never seriously. You must realize that if they only knew....they would be sorry. They are the ones who left with a bad impression . (from your viewpoint) Smile! I know , I said that...but the vibes off a smile can generate warmth to an entire room! And relax! Hey there's someone who's dying to meet you! And as mentioned in the Hindi movie Dil to Pagal Hai Someone Somewhere is made for you exclusively so chill out.